TLDR; I had the courage to leave a toxic relationship thanks to you guys

i only recently discovered the podcast on tiktok about 3 months ago. i started listening to full episodes of reddit on wiki on spotify and yt, just subscribed to patreon because i found you guys to be humorous. after following the podcast sometime, i admired the characters of each host. i really like how you guys always kept it real yet respectful. the commentary is not only entertaining to listen to but you guys give much better advice than you give yourselves credit for. the way you talk about your significant others, the advice that you gave to the op of the stories etc. made me realise that there are really good people out there. i had been in a relationship for about 9 months and it started off well but took a turn for the worse. he just isnt the same boy i fell for (i liked him for a year before we got together, its been almost two years) and started treating me like i wasnt even a person. for the record we are still young (we’re both 16) and i knew that it wouldn’t last but i was blinded by the fact that i had liked him for so long and finally stood a chance. there was a point in the relationship where he started to prioritise his friends, his games over me and he would even go out with his girl friends one on one and i would get called insecure if i tried to tell him i wasnt comfortable with it. he would turn small things into huge arguments and complained about every single thing i did but the moment i confronted him about something he would scold me for being overdramatic and sensitive. he would always sexualise me and it felt like he only liked me for my body because he would constantly compare me with other girls and say that they’re better looking but his dealbreaker was that they had smaller breasts. i dont know why i didnt leave earlier even though there were times i wanted to. back to the present, the three of you had given me the courage i needed to end things with him. i realised that im still young and i shouldnt be wasting my life being with someone who cant even treat me right . i met up with him to break up and told him its best if we cut each other off completely. ive decided to focus on myself and my studies for now and i definitely wont be getting into a relationship anytime soon until i can heal. so again, thank you